Being a parent is hard enough on its own. Having the world around giving advice you already know or just bad advice really sucks. Here's my point. Your kid throws a fit. WHY? Problems with kids at school? Maybe a teacher who is mean when your not there? Are you working more hours and having less time with your kid? It could be separation anxiety. Don't act unless you know the real reason why. I had a teacher hit our hands when I was 6. Yeah I skipped school and didn't even now what that meant at the time. Luckily for me my Mom listened to me the child before listening to an adult (The teacher.) That's my advice your child is old enough to tell you what's wrong. Take the time to listen to your daughter and talk to her. Find out why she is having a hard time going to school. Regardless of what other people might say. Your child trust you and will talk to you if you choose to listen. Be her parent and take the time to show her that you do care for her and she doesn't have to holler to get you to listen. Good luck