GOOD FOR YOU! I know you will feel like a decent person for NOT saying anything! I sure like you for it.

No, LIFE is not fair. All we can do is the best we can do... and try to not take other ppl's incompetence personally.

Double check that your paperwork is not sitting on someone's desk waiting for some detail you might not have filled in... try to ask politely or in a way to establish that your leave is approved... yep try to make your words sweet, as we all end up eating them sometimes...

I have had to work diligently on "fairness" and otherwise... I don't have it learned fully yet... and some days not at all!

Keep trying,.