my strongest feeling about this, Kathie, is that you need serious counseling to get through this. please call lthe local mental health clinic and you can get a therapist through them. do you have other children? does the "person" have any children? you also could talk to a lawyer and find out your rights. for god's sake, quit worrying about his rights. he has no right to hold you prisoner, like he did and you need a lot of people to tell you that so you'll see what you would be getting back into....pat