I will totally agree with you on this one Patty. When all other efforts had failed I made the decision to try out these match making sites with the hopes of -at least- meeting "ok" people.
Let me tell you! I decided to be brave and meet with some of them in very public places. The profiles that I read about their personality, what they are looking for, even their profile pic.....were a fraud! First of all they had all placed a profile pic from waaaay younger years. And ok, lets say that we overlook this because appearance doesn't matter....what about their personality? In their profil they had all written things that were closer to how they wished they could be OR what they knew would attract women (!!!) and not what they really were.
The worst though from my experiences is that 2 of these guys were also weird...and I mean in a scary way. That's when I said NEVER AGAIN.