kathie, this is more than i can help you with. i just think that you're in denial about this person and you've got big issues that i hope you can work through with a therapist. i'm sorry, but i just don't feel capable to advise you...xoxo pat p.s. i would like to suggest that you listen to your parents. and you said "it's my body and my baby"....kathie, you have two other children that you can't be responsible for...think of that. your parents should be listened to.okay?