(((imo)))) i think it can get very complicated having 2 families living together. you and your hubby have a relationship and now other ppl's dynamics are brought in. i think what aaaaa said and reach are good suggestions for you. you will need to keep you family intact and not let others impact your relationshp. i know u care for your sister. you can be there for her but remember that it's important to protect your own relationship with hubby regardless of his opinion on the matter.
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