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Hey I got this problem too. My husband has friends from his unit. We go out to some one's "trailer." Two of his military buddies were there. So I talked and pissed them both off. One guy I made mad was his best friend from active duty. All I ever heard was how great this guy was. And stupid me tried to hold an intelligent conversation with an idiot. All jock and no brain. I called him a *****. Should I be offended because this male ***** is trying to hang out with my husband? I unintentionally made him mad. They haven't hung out sense. I should feel bad cause I made my husband loose a friend. However married with kids don't need to hang out with divorced and no kids male *****. So I did myself a favor telling him how I felt. Sorry but my husband don't need any friends like that. The other guy I made mad was cause I told him to stop whining about life. I could not help it. He is old enough to go to war but not old enough to deal with his parents divorce. There's more to it then that but I don't want to go into it. I was not mean just honest. You cant hate every one in life because your dad (male *****) is leaving your Mom. See my point I was trying to make is, he is so disturb that his dad is a ***** yet he is letting his sister (female *****) who has a ten week old baby sleep with a guy who is married and that she just met. Hence not the father. So I told him to find better friends and stop complaining about life. Oh yeah and tell his sister to stop acting like a *****. Yeah I'm very out spoken and direct. But I don't need trashy people interfering with my life. My husband has poor judgment in friends. His excuses for the type of people we were around. In war you don't care who sleeping with who. As long as they got your back. Well, whatever. I'm not exposing my husband or child to trashy people. So they hate me. I'm the talk of the unit. Oh don't go around his wife she has a big mouth. Ha. I don't care if they don't like me. You should be the same way find someone who talks as much as you. Your not always going to be alone unless you make it that away. In this world there are so many different types of people you are bound to find some who will love you and listen. Don't let the world beat you up. Funny thing I recently learned. If you think happy thoughts it will come true it's a proven fact. Not urban legend. You just have to know that there is a difference in pretending and convincing. You need to convince your self that the people around you who are running the other way are just negative people. Find positive people to surround yourself with.

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Our situations are worlds apart.

I don't hang out with anyone. There are no people to hang out with. There are no friends, no acquaintances, no family, nothing.

In four years on dozens of forums I have had the same problem and it's not because the thousands of people on all these forums over the years are all negative or are all *****s.