(((((((((((((Les)))))))))))))))))))))
First off id like to tell you...i miss you!!!!
i dont know about divorce laws..i am finding that out myself...but i do know that when it came to being afraid of losing custody..my doc and a lawyer told me that no judge would even listen to any of my illness..he would ask if i was under treatment ...my pdoc said that abusers use this as control....judges realize this...my doc said as long as i was seeking treatment and caring for myself..he could say anything he wanted...and having my doc on my side was enough to give me control not to buy into anymore control or abuse..he told me the judge would ask my doc if i was in treatment and ask of my progress.....and when the judge found i was doing what i needed to be heathly that would stop all the abuse that was being created ...using ur illness against you is just another form of abuse and a way to control you...i hope this makes sense...i tried to explain my situation the best i could....this has whats been told to me....hope it helps..
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