Well, I don't speak for every man over 40, but I am over 40, and I would love to make love to my wife two or three times a day...unfortunate circumstances have us in a no intimacy mode, but that will change...if you are healthy and take care of yourself, your sex drive will stay pretty dang good. I suggest that if any of you are having problems with your husbands (I always had the opposite lol), talk to them, low libido, erectile dysfunction, etc., could also be linked to serious health problems.