I was trying to show that all people can have some communication problems with the people around them. My story was an example. I too have the problem of opening my mouth and making people run away. I added the story just as a good laugh. I don't feel there was a need to quote me. The forums are set up for people to find other people with similar problems. Or to find relief in every day life. I'm not here to be hurtful. And yeah there is a lot of communality's between what you wrote and my life. However I choose not to allow people to offend me. See I was rejected by my husbands friends. Instead of letting it get to me. I was not going to be hurt. I saw the up sides to being disliked. Sorry you think you are the only one having these issue's. But you truly are not.