we generall fight about the same things - him saying one thing and doing another, him playing video games every single night n if i once in a while ask him to lay wiht me instead he gets all mad (even though he's unemployed at the time n can play games whenever he wants), and my negative attitude about his daughter coming over (which is something i just need to work on) mainly.
he doesn't try becaues we've gone through every issue and talked about them and came to a common ground, but then the next day he does the exact same thing he said he wouldn't anymore. it's like it went in one ear n out the other or something. or, he'll get all defensive if i ask him to call me if he's gonna be late or plans change n he says that's just how he is n me asking to call is trying to change him, when i just see it as common courtesy.
i definately don't think he's hiding anything. he just comes off as inconsiderate and self-centered or something?
thanks!
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Originally Posted by ihateit
First off, welcome!
When you fight, what do you fight about? This would be helpful in knowing ... to see what you're figthing about and maybe give some help with it.
Do you mean by "not trying" that he doesn't do exactly what he says?
When he comes to your place eventually, I assume he tells you where he's been...sooo...he's not hiding anything?
Maybe a little more information would help... 
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