Who told you to stop playing games? Anyone that doesn't understand the difficulty of this decision and the process of making the decision doesn't deserve you giving him the time of day! When you're in this position it's natural to go back and forth. You have no one to answer to but yourself.

Take your time, there is no rush! There is of course a time frame involved if you still wish to concider abortion as your option. Make the appointment if this is the way you're leaning at the moment, you can always cancel it later. In the mean time, don't fret about what anyone else thinks, weigh the pro's and con's for each of your choices. If you decide to continue with your pregnancy and later decide that you really don't think you can take care of a child on your own, there is still a list a mile long of parents waiting to adopt.

I've been in your position, I know how desperate and dire the situation feels right now, but it's really not. I realize this is thee toughest decision you will ever make in your life, but remove the outside negative sources. If the father isn't willing to be supportive, don't communicate with him again until you've made a final decision.