Hi Wi,

I'd recommend some face to face counselling before you start blaming yourself.

It's pretty well known that children of dominant parents often walk into another submissive relationship in later life. It's as if the dominators can sense the fear. A good counsellor can help us to break the pattern and start laying down some requirements of our own.

You deserve it. Being dominated as a child is bad enough without walking into it again in later life.

I'll never forget my father's remark - 'It seems like you made yourself the victim'. Oh yes?

Good thoughts to you,

Myzen.