EM,

((((((((((((earthmama))))))))))))))))) first thing. 2nd thing is you are doing some GREAT work. It is an unfortunate that we all have to go through really tough memmories. Your "system" is working and yes it is scary but your T has your back. Something that may help is setting out paper with crayons or pens that work. From my expierence when I went through those really rough times and we still do this. Put paper throughout your home and just state what you want. People then can come out and write whatever. It's nice to be known. I'm not sure this is making alot of sense or not but it sounds like "your people" is doing some great work!!! I know it seems like a mess but it's called HEALING!
BIG GROUP Hug with EM Were thinking of ya and thanks for posting! ThaCrew