I'm wondering what the best way to conduct myself is, if he is having all these doubts. On the one hand I'm angry that he is always flip flopping and not taking responsibility for our relationship, but when we talked I was mostly supportive and encouraging him to take some time for himself (he's been unhappy) and see how he feels about us when he's calmed down and is feeling good? What's the best way to show that I care but not be stiffling 'cause I'm worried about losing him?