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Originally Posted by ArianeB
I'm wondering what the best way to conduct myself is, if he is having all these doubts. On the one hand I'm angry that he is always flip flopping and not taking responsibility for our relationship, but when we talked I was mostly supportive and encouraging him to take some time for himself (he's been unhappy) and see how he feels about us when he's calmed down and is feeling good? What's the best way to show that I care but not be stiffling 'cause I'm worried about losing him?
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Even though I don't have any advice on this particular problem, I'm going through the same thing. We've now broken up and gotten back together once, and I don't want to push him to spend time with me that he doesn't want to, and I've been trying to instigate a talk on what he thinks about our relationship... I know it sounds hopeless on both of our situations, but I'm not willing to give up on my boyfriend. If you really love and care about yours I don't think you should give up either. I'm going to stick it out until I know there really isn't any hope, and then I'll feel better knowing I've done all I can to help him be happy, and to make it work.