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Old Feb 24, 2009, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted by sarahxxkristine View Post
i push her away when i want her close...i make her so upset sometimes and enjoy it....i want affection from her but cant deal with it when i get it. i get jealous when she talks about her kids. unless she words a text the right way, i get so upset it ruins my whole day.
Do you think unconsciously that they represent your birth mom? It is good that you are noticing this and wanting to work on it. I don't think that it sounds co-dependent either.
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