At the risk of sounding arguementative, I think the majority of people that use porn do not have a problem with it. It's like anything else: alcohol, food, sex, gambling, video games, exercise, etc. The majority of people can use these things appropriately without issue. SOME people have problems with it and when they do it usually destroys their life, at least for a period of time.

What I've found irl is that people that have issues with these things think it's wrong for EVERYONE, not true. IMO it's not the activity that "tricks you, traps your, and controls you".

For every single activity on this planet, there are many people that have an addiction to it, even though the majority have no issue. The only answer I think is each person taking care to avoid those things that are unhealthy for themselves.