Grains, I hope you have a better day today. (((((((((((hugs)))))))))

I can understand the situation you're in. Sounds similar to mine. Had two kids only two years apart, worked a full-time job, wasn't dealing with my depression and anxiety (just smile and everything will be fine, after all. Yeah, right), and hubby just couldn't understand why the house was always messy and I wasn't ready, willing, and able to entertain him in bed at least every other night.


I don't have any answers. I'm still trying to learn boundary setting and effective communication so my ex will maybe listen to my point of view. Just wanted to let you know you're not alone.