OMG!!! This guy has now crossed over the perverbial line and is violating you. I'm glad Jerry reacted the way he did but how did YOU react? This guy is obsessed and dangerous. I don't mean to scare you anymore than you already are but did you see the movie 'Fatal Attraction'? I think his 'childish' games are now 'sick' and 'calculated' games. I think you're very wise to be afraid to go outside by yourself, dang, I hope you keep all your doors and windows locked too, even when Jerry is home now. If he's already kissed you, what would he do next? My God, I think I'd be phoning the police, charging him with harrassment and getting a restraining order against him before something worse happens. It doesn't look like Art is gonna stop at anything for him to kiss you with Jerry right in the house. DAMN!!! Girl, I am majorly concerned for your safety. I just can not even imagine the intensity of the stress and anxiety you are going through right now. You need to call the police and get them involved. God only knows what his next move will be. I don't think you want to find out. He's only going to get more brazen with each prior action that failed. PLEASE take some legal action!!! I won't even tell you the places that my mind is taking me right now, you don't want to hear. Just PLEASE BE SAFE!!!

BTW, is there somewhere else you can stay to be safe? Of course, you can't stay away forever and who knows how he might react upon your return but geez, maybe my paranoia is now settling in for you. You better make sure that Jerry stays put while you go through all this. And if you can manage it, NEVER be in your house alone at any time. OK, maybe I need to shut-up. I don't think I'm helping you any, I'm probably making you feel worse cuz of my paranoia.

((((((((((( Tomi )))))))))))