Thread: Just wondering
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Old Feb 25, 2009, 05:50 AM
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There are a lot of theories out there on why people want more than one partner at a time, or in succession. Some say we live so much longer now that we aren't biologically built to be with just one person our whole lives, others say those who engage in things like polyamory have a problem, becuase we are meant to be with only one person.

A common misconception is that polyamory is all about the sex. For some people sex with multiple partners is a very big deal, but for the vast majority of polyamorous people, sex just isn’t the main reason for going polyamorous.

Me, my system of beliefs, if you will, my faith, the way I am, I could never be that way. I would have a hard time with anyone that did, sorry, but honest, and especially if they tried to push it on me that it's the "right" way to go. I love my wife, and have no desire for anyone else. Monogamy for me is what I need, and what I expect my partner to want and need, and I know she does.
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