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Feb 25, 2009, 10:31 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2008
Posts: 177
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Originally Posted by jbug
I have people on my Facebook page from High School that when we were in High School they used to make fun of me. I think it's kind of funny that now that we are adults that they want to be my friend. I added them but don't connect with them they are just on my page. I don't converse with them or anything.
Jan
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I found this too Jbug, but I also gave it some thought, the so called cool ppl back than that were into so much and had seemingly all the confidence and looks and were now having difficulties, it is because they were having difficulties than as well. I did alot of forgiving, although I childishly liked the pain that they were in, because of how aweful they made me feel than, and now I was the better looking one. BUT of course we all know that looking and feeling are separate and yet give each other a hand in how others may view us. Maybe they wanted to add you, because they feel badly about how they were and want to apologize or wanted forgiveness.
Another problem I had with the whole FB adding ppl that you went to HS with had to do with their mindsets never changed, they never grew, they only got worse plus they seemed to think that you too were the same person. They never knew me than, even though they thought they did. They don't know me now, they were only willing to treat me the exact same as they did than. I may have looked the same, same name, but in 8 years I am a completely DIFFERENT person. There are boundaries that on FB with ppl that you used to know should be treated the same as crossing a stranger in the street.
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