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Old Feb 25, 2009, 01:36 PM
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(and please don't criticise me for sleeping in the same bed as my boyfriend. I don't like sleeping alone, and it was something I did with him even when we were just friends, and actually I've basically dog piled into my bed with several people on several occasions and not in a sexual way at all)
just to get this out of the way - understood, am with you there it comfy!

I wanted to say your relationship with your mom reminds me in some ways of my relationship with my mom. She would yell at both me and my sister calling us bad and going to my dad for backup if we ever fought back - which we learned not to do. Well I dont think i fully ever did, and I suffered for it because she's focus her negative attention on me.

I want to say, that this is ... kind of emotionally abusive. I'm not saying to go against her, I honestly dont know what you can do at this point, I don't know what level school you're at , how old you are etc, but I wanted you to know, that what your mom is doing is wrong and abusive.

I'm sorry that I don't have much to offer other than hugs, and understanding

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