I'm avoidant. I add my voice to the previous poster who mentioned the issue of trust. Which I don't possess to any significant degree as to anybody.

As for T., I've long since given up any hope or expectation that there is anything T. could do for me. I went with T. for four years and got nowhere. I've accomplished a lot more on my own. I'm not the least bit convinced that T. can do much to treat personality disorders.