LOL..Sicklysweet!..."I found that those sites are not a healthy way to meet someone. The majority don't get back to you. Or judge you on your appearance. You may be thinking oh, ugly. I am talking about try being thought of as soo attractive that everyone is afraid to approach you, and they think you're a total biatch." A total biatch, LOL! I know exactly what you're saying.!

You sound young, and full of spirit. You will surely meet someone in person someday who appreciates you. But you are right about the "out for sex" thing. I've viewed the profiles of women in my own age group in the past, just to see who else gained the courage to put themselves on there. Many women sound desperate, and too compromising, like they'll accept any amount of attention with no questions asked. The men in my age group often make it clear they want a relationship with no strings attached and a good time.

At some point, my lightbulb came on. I don't go there any more and haven't for several years now.

Patty