thank you. Yes, I know his family. It seems to me like every single person in his family is kind of only looking out for themselves, including his parents. Of course, they care about each other, but they aren't really involved in each other's lives.
He's the only one out of all his siblings that is different and doesn't want to live with his parents when he's 40. His parents aren't the kind to talk to their children about life or anything other than small talk.
I am not planning on having kids for another.. oh, ten years? =P so i guess, you're right.. that's a good thing.
I just don't know how to talk to him to motivate him or to take care of himself and do simple things like shower every day and exercise without nagging him.
ughh this is so damn hard.
I love him and I don't just want to end our relationship. Of course, if it continued for years, I'd walk away.
I do have family at home.. but they are all moving away within the next year or two to another country and probably won't be able to come back.. so it's difficult.
Plus, i feel like I am having to choose either between my family or him. Right now, I've chosen him, but I feel guilty. And if I went home, I would feel guilty. It's a lose-lose situation.
How do you get through feeling so alone? oh well