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Originally Posted by youOme
I figured I'd just keep myself busy on him and he could watch whatever...if you get my drift. I didn't mind satisfying him at all, I love doing it.... but he LIKED it a little to much. Even though it was me doing the "work" he was looking at some one else. Maybe I am jealous idk.... But, I'm not sure if I liked that or not.
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You have just given the decade long argument as to why many females do not like the ideal of their men viewing porn... it feels as though your man is cheating on you with their eyes & mind.
I personally went through this with my husband for ten long years and I can tell you that I too hated it as he seemed to like viewing them over being with me (this is where the problem comes in) - when one uses porn as a sexual enhancement and forgets about their significant other many aspects of the relationship in and out of the bed will suffer.
I would suggest you not do anything you are not comfortable with (physically or visually) and I would highly recommend that you communicate with your bf how you are feeling and why.
After so many years of feeling uncomfortable and angry about what my man looked at I finally moved passed the whole issue of the eyes and now I no longer let it bother me as long as I know where his heart is.