I'm tempted to copy this post and email it to T, but if I did, then she wouldn't respond and I would assume that she read it (which she would), and then I wouldn't talk about it because she already know, so there's no point. I need to try to remember and actually talk to her, which seems to be my main problem lately. So I'm trying to hold onto this for long enough to be able to talk about it. By next week it might be old hat though, so that's the challenge. I keep having things I want to talk about, and not talking about them. Even if I have notes, or send an email, ....