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Old Feb 26, 2009, 05:41 AM
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Imapatient and chaotic and reflection - thanks for your input.
I agree with your advice to Locust but was afraid to say it myself. (ummmmm - see people pleasing thread....... )
I think those things needed to be said though, even if it might sound harsh.

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At some point, depending on where your work is at and what the T thinks your issue is, your T will terminate.
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I was thinking this too. I've only been seeing my T for about 3 weeks, and in the 'introductory letter' that she gave me, she specifically said that if I consistently miss appointments we would re-evaluate whether or not it is the right time for me to be in therapy, and that we could terminate until such a time that I was ready and willing to stick to the commitment.
It may seem like a "punishment", but it is really just the recognition that if you are not keeping appointments what's the sense in making them anyway.

(((((((((((((((((((((Locust))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I hope you get this figured out - and that you talk to your T about it.