((((((youOme))))))

An abusive relationship is not tolerable, from husband, boyfriend, mother, father, anyone. If it were me, and I usually don't give ultimatums, I would here. Get your **** together, go to rehab, and get better, or you will totally cut her out of your life. If that doesn't work, then stay out of her life.

Your sister - I would keep the child and report her to child services, but that's me. I don't know if they would make the child a ward of the state or let you keep her as you're the aunt. If they would make the child a ward, I would keep quiet, but tell my sister the same thing. He's not your child, you love him very much and am glad to take care of him, when you can, but he's her responsibilty, and unless she's willing to give him up completely and to never see him again, she better get her **** together.

I don't know ... that's me, and that is how I would react. Not out of anger or hate, I can't hate anyone, no matter what they do or have done to me, but because I care, but at the same time, you have to remember what they have done/are doing and let them know what's up. No one deserves to be driven to depression from anyone.

GL and God bless!