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i understand lonliness so well, but the abuse in childhood doesn't make me feel tempted to go outside of the 28 year marriage we are in though it is lonely and not fun for either partner of the marriage.
BUT, sexual escapades outside the marriage would probably lead to a lot of pain and problems. i sure understand the frustrations and longings, but it is playing with fire. i urge caution out of concern for you and for the men involved - "she" is not really free to pursue a relationship honorably and if she does so without honor where will it lead. if he is open to a fling he will probably hurt all of you in the end. i guess i'm urging caution. fire burns, what it first warms it finally destroys. that's just where i am at on this kind of thing.
concernedly,
leslie and her pixies
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