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Old Feb 26, 2009, 10:12 AM
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she just doesnt have time as much. and i cant get mad, i mean shes helped me consistently for the last 3 years. shes just trying to enjoy living with more human contact that she did have. so guess im just whining again huh?

just feel like ive been "left" by everybody that should have mattered. feeling like I dont want it to happen again. and honestly ive gotten so used to leaning on her. like were best friends.
Colleen, why would you have to get mad? Sometimes we just get sad because of circumstances and there is nothing wrong with that. If you understand why you are sad and just let it be, it will pass, like mourning.... Trying to block or fight the feelings, thus, interfering with their flow, is what brings on feelings of depression.........

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I just love and miss her. hence the hiding.
So you hide when you are hurting or sad? What is up with that??????
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