Hi everyone . I'm a new member. I have been married for 27yrs. and found out 3yrs. ago that my husband decided to marry another woman (in a religious sense). He is muslim and they believe they can have more than one wife. but not all of them do it. Since I found out, we have been living like roomates and are civil to each. We have 2 children ages 7 & 11. He doesn't want a divorce for the childrens sake and also for financial reasons. I have been holding this secret in for three years and I haven't even told family members. I'm a homemaker so it's not easy for me to support myself and my children on my own. I have no intention of being enemies with him or ruining his relationship with the kids. For now I'm just living day to day. Thanks God for my kids they keep me going.