Lemme just say this. I am in love with my ex-husband still. Every guy I go out with will never measure up to him. You will never forget. If you don't have the guts to be honest with him, you don't have the guts to be with him. If you guys ever do go out and break up he will hurt you. What if you relize that all it was, was just a little school girl crush and you are breaking his heart. Or the best case senrio you guys fall in love get married and have many babies. Look at all your options. If you got the guts then go for it.