This is a random question that has been floating through my mind lately. Since I've been having so many problems with my mom (to the point of ignoring her existence) I've been thinking about what a good mom is even like. I'm very happy with the way that I am. I have no lack of self confidence, and I'm pretty good at handling everything life throws my way... but do I owe that to my mom? This thought goes back to the whole nature versus nurture argument. What do you think?