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Originally Posted by Mouse_
If you think of therapy as a sprial event, then we hit times like this where we are able to talk and then suddenly we hit a sore place a place thats just that bit more deeper and we go back in ourselfs, and tend to just pick around the edges for a few weeks and then without knowing it we're able to walk right in to the centre of the nerve and it feels better, easier, not so triggering, we once again let the walls down.
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thank you for this thread, and your comment. T told me this week that usually people hold back for a while, and then they get to a place where they can trust, and they open up - but in MY case (yikes I hate it when she says that), i am still, well she didn't say resisting, but it was like, not trusting. THis made me sad, because I thought I really thought I was doing my best to be very open. maybe my best just ain't much.
if it's ebb&flow, then maybe I can look for that to change (back to where i thought i was open). Right now I just don;t know what she wants. While she was telling me I said, "I'm sorry", but she didnt acknowledge it, just kept talking.
