in MY case (yikes I hate it when she says that), i am still, well she didn't say resisting, but it was like, not trusting. THis made me sad, because I thought I really thought I was doing my best to be very open. maybe my best just ain't much.

if it's ebb&flow, then maybe I can look for that to change (back to where i thought i was open). Right now I just don;t know what she wants. While she was telling me I said, "I'm sorry", but she didnt acknowledge it, just kept talking.