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He has always been very controlling, what clothes i could wear, who i talked to, could not go anywhere without him or without him following me. He would come and sit at my work all day in the parking lot somedays, not doing his own job.

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Imscared, to me that sounds like emotional abuse, not OCD. It might help if you could talk to a women's abuse shelter to get some direction for your own emotional well being.

You've come to a good place to get some support.

Shirley