Your hurt and distrust is understandable. What I would suggest is for you to do your own research regarding OCD and medications. You can do this on this site or by doing a simple search on the net. I have OCD, basically, for me, I have intrusive thoughts. Now I would never follow through on those thoughts. Thats part of the disorder. Im not sure if what he has is OCD. I'm not a DR so I have no idea the in's and out's. I can only speak from my own diagnosis. I wish you luck and please keep us posted.