thank you very much. I feel as if our whole lives have been about him and now this too. Even when i called the detective to find out what the charges were, he never returned my call, and told my husband that i had called and that he hadnt called me back, and that he didnt want to make it worse for him. after he had been to the police station begging them not to tell me. I really do feel alone, embarrassed, and scared and i appreciate all the support and caring that i can get. Thanks again.