hi trev, when i first came to pc it took me some time to establish ppl i pm-ed to and vice versa. i know it's difficult to feel left out but i assure you i have not felt that way about you. matter of fact i usually read your posts when i see them.
you can also reach out to others by sending them a friend request. when i read someone's post that i could relate to in some way, that's exactly what i did. another way is to welcome the newer members and send them a friend request. they are scared and perhaps lonely and seeing that pm in their mailbox will make their day. it's "paying if forward" and by doing so i think you will find you may have more pms than you can answer. lol. we all care for you, t, so don't ever feel alone. we are all here for you and we care. i do.