I agree with both of you, really. And by the way, he's not on my computer, it's his, I have one of my own. We all do actually, so we're fine there.

I have felt like saying something before, but it has to be right, you know, feel right, timing and all. They even got into it a little the other day, because I had said something to her, that she needs to tell him how she feels. She was cooking something and burnt herself and was upset that he didn't go help her or act like he cared much, the game again.

I think that helped some. I see little things, she may have talked to him and he tries to get away from it and do some things. Still to pay for a game on a monthly basis and talk to people on that game while we're watching some program.

I was so hoping for the job and him being busy, he's willing to work and wants to, to make it and all. I am praying and please if anyone else could with us, I'd appreciate it. Some things need to change.

But yes, I agree that many things won't change unless something is said or done to change that. Then too, I also agree that some things need handled very differently by the mother-in-law, what have you. Anyone that isn't really in that particular relationship.

But yes, if it were to get bad enough, something could be said and some lines drawn, I guess. It does get hard with us all living here, wanting more privacy, quiet time and all. But with our economic times and so much more, who knows what we'll all face, huh? Guess got to be thankful for what we have and hope we can keep what we have!

Well you all take care. Appreciate all this. Till later okay!