Did she come to you and tell you what was on her mind? Or were you "sensing" something was wrong and you brought it up. Like I said, I don't agree with interfering in personal things unless I am directly asked for my opinion.

If you're watching TV, and he plays a game, that bothers you? Why? I know if my wife watches a program that I don't particularly care for, I won't watch it, has nothing to do with her, just don't like the show.

Sooo anyway...I was just using examples (on your computer), but in essence it does affect you, and your home life. He lives in your house and if things bother you about him, not theri personal life, he needs to know. Again, I don't get into relationships, unless specifically asked. But, if the situation was here in my house, and he wouldn't do anything to help around the house, or find a job to help with the bills (especially his game bill), I wouldn't have Internet to his computer, that's me, disagree or not, I don't mind.