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Originally Posted by omizuhime
I have been with my husband since we were 17/18, and we got married a year and a half ago. I have never had sex with anyone else, in fact, the farthest I've ever gone with anyone else is kissing. My husband, on the other hand, lost his virginity when he was 15, and has been with several other girls (a couple of them, I was friends with). I know that all of these things happened before we were together, and he can't undo anything he's already done, but I'm extremely jealous of these other girls.
I feel like such a bad wife, that I can't just forget about this. He didn't do it to hurt me, and I don't think he would ever intentionally do anything to hurt me.
How can I stop thinking about this?
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You're not a bad wife!!!! You're at a stuck point though, and you do need to get past it.
Everything he did happened before you were B/F - G/F?
Before the marriage?
Does he give you reason to be jealous, to not trust him?
As someone here on these forums would say, get rid of the old tapes you keep playing in your mind, start recording new ones.
You are with him, today, tomorrow. etc. I know where you are, trust me, I have been there, but there's no reason to be there. All of this is done, and over, and even if it were yesterday, it's all way in the past. Live for the day, control what you can, and forget about what you can't.
GL and God Bless!