just imo valex, but wouldnt you do yourself the most good by CHOOSING to harbor no ill feelings towards the ex? think of what you could do with that free time of yours you will suddenly gain in letting go of hurt, anger, confusion.. you can choose to be good to yourself and love yourself and give yourself the widest open door to freedom by supplanting the fears, worries, doubts with hope.. for yourself....

is it possible to care for others from a distance? you would care and be a safe distance also.. you could care and hope that the ex will find their way out of the darkness.. you could contribute to the good being of the planet and yourself by clearing out your own energy zone first and choosing love and joy for yourself by leaving behind the pains and misunderstandings that are now behind you..

a new day awaits