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Originally Posted by madisgram
if she approaches you about something you can answer her question but keep it simple or suggest she ask your son. he's old enough to communicate adequately with her.
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I disagree with this. You do not want to put your son "in the middle" of conversations you should be having with your ex-wife. It's really uncomfortable for the child. If you need to ask your ex-wife something, then do it directly. Don't use your son as the message carrier.
Keep at it, StayGolden. It sounds like you are doing an amazing job.[/quote]
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oops sorry for the confusing remark. i meant that if wife was asking husband a question that son could answer directly, that ex husband didn't have to be the "middle" man.
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