ihateit, you're on the mark re ptsd. is your wife in the military? just asking cause not sure.
i'd definitely approach her on considering a new t. this one is a yo-yo, imho. i have ptsd and it resulted from being abused and other events. it's much better than it was but the ptsd and what your wife went thru needs to be handled correctly in order for her to get better and have a happier life. i applaud you for wanting this for her. please lt us know if you have any success in her seeing someone else. we care and it's obvious you are your wife's best advocate!!! keep at it. i hope she will at least try to see someone else. nothing lost and something gained if she does.