Hi after 28 yrs. of marriage and 2 girls ages 7 & 11 my husband (who is muslim) decided to marry another woman (in a religous sense). He dropped this bomb on me 3 yrs. ago. I'm a stay at home mom and cannot afford to divorce and live on my own and support the kids. He doesn't want to divorce because of the children. We are also in a very bad financial situation. Since I found out we are civil and sleep in separate rooms. If I were to win the lottery and had financial independence I would divorce him and just remain civil for the childrens sake. What a complicated mess right! Initially I was devistated and felt like I was the only one. I didn't even tell my own family. I feel like I would need a miracle to sort this out.