(((Heatherm)))- i want to thank you for this post. i was not brave enough to publicly thank jen yesterday, i PM'd her instead. your reasons for lurking and not posting are the same as mine. when i read the replies that AngelGirl was getting, i know she had to have been hurt because they hurt me. (((AngelGirl))) i hope you don't mind me hijacking your post. The post that Heatherm made in General today says it all.