if a guy is not just using you. I have a bf...this one guy was really lonely and we became fast friend...i had no attraction to him what so ever...he had attraciton to me...I told him I don't love him that I love my bf...he wouldn't take no for an answer...after thinking he was my best friend...I realised he was just using me to keep his lonliness in check...I live with a philipino family and they take in homestays..i was their first homestay...I am no in a house full of boys....this guy, who was supposedly my friend took oranges from the oranges i bought and would not pay me back, or if he did pay me back he did it and was upset...I told him our friendship is over many times because he would try to kiss me...I told him to back off...he said but I like your presence and your company...I would feel bad because he has no fmaily or close friends and I truly thought he was a good friend...he called me a bi*** once because I got upset with him so many times. I told him to stop hugging me but he wouldn't listen...then finally one day i got fed up and just blocked him and told him I couldn't trust him and that we are not friends. He got upset and said that he wold miss me...he left me emails. I went upstairs to eat by myself...he came upstairs as well and stared at me while I avoided eye contact...I smiled and didn't say anything..he just stared and gave me a pissed off look and walked away...I'm relieved...I feel like I can just live my life carefree now...I feel like he was trying ot control me and make me comfort him while he wasn't much of a friend to me...I'm afraid of the reprucussions though...I'm afraid he'll me nasty to me from now on...I told my bf about him...he said that this guy has issues and that I should just stay away from him and not care about his feelings